What is some of the best advice your mother ever gave you?

 

I have to begin this story with a little background on one of the most amazing women that ever lived my mom. She was born in Salt Lake City on Nov 5 1922 then moved to Long Island NY where she grew up. Her father had been affected by the gas bombs of WW1 and was confined to a VA hospital for the next 40 years. So my mom was raised in a single parent family with little to no money. Her mother cleaned houses to make ends meet. She lived thru the Great Depression and when WW 2 began she joined the Marines. This is where she met and married my dad a fellow Marine Unfortunately, after their marriage, she was never welcome home again. Her family completely disowned her for the remainder of her life. My father was a very difficult person to live with at times and often treated her very badly both mentally and physically especially when he was drinking which happened way too often This is why my mom is so great. She had 5 boys and whenever she was asked why she didn’t leave him years earlier she would reply then I would not have had my 5 boys! She was always the first to help someone in need. She never saw the color of someones skin or where they came from. She only saw a friend in need. Through my mother ‘s example she showed me more then advised me how to be a strong person as well as a good husband to my wife. She was our biggest support especially when we first got married. She was always doing what she could to help us. Her advice to me was her example to be a good person and live life to the best of your ability because it will all work out in the end!!!!!!! Thanks mom for teaching me how to have a good life.

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